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Indeed.  Dear Hubby, How Dost Thou Love Me?  Let Me Count The Ways.  It is in the way, when I need to talk, you give me your presence, both physical and emotional, being truly present with me, even if only for just a few minutes.  It is that being, not fixing, just sharing, that makes me feel heard, valued, loved, and I thank you for it.

[Posted Friday, December 7, 2012]

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Consider yourself warned – and please see Will Smith quote below.  You can blame the cancer (I do, or thank it, not sure yet) and/or call me a bitch – that won’t make it any less true.

[Posted Tuesday December 4, 2012]

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The first part is me . . . the last line is Hubby – that’s how I know he loves me.

[Posted Tuesday December 4, 2012]

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[Posted Monday November 12, 2012]

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Um, yep.  It can take some men a long time to learn we women don’t want them to fix us, we just want them to stay by our side (as back-up, like – and company) while we fight our battles.  If your man hasn’t figured this one out, maybe this is the way he needs to hear it for it to make sense.  Mine’s already gotten here, but some good-hearted men still haven’t heard it in the right way for them to take it in yet.

[Posted Monday November 12, 2012]

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So they tell me . . . step, step, step . . .

[Posted Sunday November 11, 2012]

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[Posted Sunday October 29, 2012]

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Um, I resemble that remark.

[Posted Sunday October 29, 2012]

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I love you Hubby – you are doing such an amazing job of standing by me while I deal with this cancer  business!

[Posted Sunday October 29, 2012]

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Yes, yes, and YES!

[Posted Sunday October 29, 2012]

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I, unfortunately, and sadly, feel this way about a rare few people in my life.  I wish I didn’t, but wishing it weren’t so, doesn’t change that it is.

[Posted Sunday October 29, 2012]

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– Champs Elysees Paris on FB

[Posted Sunday October 29, 2012]

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“It’s easy to take off all your clothes and have sex.
People do it all the time.
But opening up your soul to someone,
Letting them into your spirit, thoughts, fears,
future, hopes, dreams ….
That’s being naked …. ♥ ~”

– Rumi on Facebook

[Posted Sunday October 29, 2012]

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Similar to the quote/graphic below, but not quite the same – this is more general, and so true about me.
I’ve long ago realized, accepted and admitted out loud, that, even without something like cancer hanging over my head, I’m not the easiest person to get along with all the time … but ultimately I think I’m worth it!

[Posted Sunday October 29, 2012]

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This is so true!  I hope people in my life land in this spot on this page.  It might help them understand what may happen sometime next year when that ‘new normal’ kicks in, and some of them may stop hearing from me.

[Posted Tuesday October 23, 2012]

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[Posted Tuesday October 23, 2012]

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[Posted Tuesday October 23, 2012]

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I miss you so much Grandma!  I hope you’re watching over me and you’re proud of how I’m fighting this fight.

[Posted Tuesday October 23, 2012]

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[Posted Tuesday October 23, 2012]

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[Posted Tuesday, October 23, 2012]

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– Funstoo.blogspot.no

[Posted Tuesday, October 23, 2012]

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– Wisdom of the Whispering Hearts on Facebook

[Posted Tuesday, October 23, 2012]

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– Your Loss, I’m Awesome on Facebook

So True!  [Posted Tuesday, October 16, 2012]

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“If I’ve gotten something you’ve never seen before, it’s about time you did!”

I’ve heard this one for so long, I can’t even remember who to credit!  Sound familiar Mom?  [Posted Tuesday, October 16, 2012]

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– Today Will Be Great on Facebook

[Posted Monday, October 9, 2012]

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– Your Loss, I’m Awesome on Facebook

Yes, please, and oh, you can still tell me too.  🙂  [Posted Tuesday, October 9, 2012]

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“Never be afraid to fall apart, because it is an opportunity to rebuild yourself the way you wish you had been all along.”―Rae Smith

 [Posted Sunday, October 7, 2012]